Alpha Girls: Women Upstarts Who Took On Silicon Valley’s Male Culture

Venture capital is one of the most amazing drivers of growth in the US. It has helped to propel iconic companies like Apple, Facebook, and Uber.

But of course, the VC industry is not without its faults. Perhaps the most egregious is the so-called “bro” culture. If you take a look at VC websites, you’ll notice that most partners are white males. It’s really that simple.

“Progress isn’t happening fast enough and credit in Silicon Valley still flows disproportionately to men,” said Judy Loehr, who is the founder of Bayla Ventures and one of the early product managers at

But there is a silver lining – that is, there has been more and more exposure of the culture and this is leading to some change. A good example of this is an excellent book from Julian Guthrie, Alpha Girls: The Women Upstarts Who Took On Silicon Valley’s Male Culture and Made the Deals of a Lifetime. It is a story of the success and struggles of four top VCs: Mary Jane (MJ) Elmore (she was one of the first partners of a VC firm), Sonja Hoel, Magdalena Yeşil and Theresia Gouw.

Often they were the only women in the room. But they certainly made a huge difference. Keep in mind that these four women were instrumental in funding companies like, Facebook and Trulia.

Now some of the stories in the book are downright horrific. When Magdalena worked at AMD in the 1980s, she was at a sales meeting that had topless women as entertainment … who engaged in sex acts!

Even though speaking up could have easily led to her swift termination, she went to the CEO, Jerry Sanders, and confronted him directly.

Yet many of the other examples in the book are subtle and nuanced. It’s really about the culture where expectations for men are often so much different than for women.
Here’s a look:

  • When launched its IPO in 2004, Magdalena decided to stay home with her sick son instead of ringing the bell on the NYSE. This was something she would regret later because no male would have done the same.
  • As like any good VC, Theresia was a constant networker while at Accel Partners. But this stirred up rumors. Was she sleeping with founders to get deals? Even worse, the rumors continued when she was pregnant. Then again, it’s understandable that there would be jealousy. She helped snag the $12.5 million investment in Facebook. According to, her networth is estimated at $580 million.
  • Something else about Theresia. Her partners denied her taking a sabbatical. But of course, other male partners had no pushback with theirs.
  • Sonja adopted a baby while she suffered from breast cancer. But none of the partners visited her.

Given all these engaging stories, it should be no surprise that the “Alpha Girls” book was the subject of a bidding war for the film and TV rights. Welle Entertainment won out against Amazon, Universal, Brett Ratner and Smokehouse.

But for the most part, “Alpha Girls” fills an important part of the history of Silicon Valley, which has been mostly ignored. This has also provided a way to impart critical lessons, which often take years to evolve and realize. As MJ has noted so eloquently: “Don’t be a martyr; be more selfish about your own needs; keep your foot in the door of a job you love; and whatever you do, don’t leave to make someone else happy.”

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